I don't pay for porn, myself.... but if I were going to... it wouldn't be the garbage we're all used to. It would be something like XConfessions.com, a site created by Swedish adult film director Erika Lust (that has some fantastic content). Think of it as porn for people who are sick of porn. Erotic. Sensual. Some of it's wildly creative. Some of it's silly. It's all good, though. They were giving out free access on International Women's Day. I checked it out and can vouch for the quality.
Just some musings from an old guy...